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Top Ten Books of 2018

Thursday 20 December 2018
So 2018 was an intense reading year, especially when I was finishing up my dissertation in the first few months. Those that I didn't review on here, their ratings are up on my Good Reads and can be found here! In total I read 57 books, and have chosen my ten favourites to recommend. 


(Illustration by Manuela Gandara)


Here goes...



1) Rebecca by Daphne Du Maurier. This is one for the Gatsby fans, as it has equally haunting elements. A young woman marries a mysterious man, moves into his huge house and discovers the eerie consequences of replacing his previous wife. I'm so happy Lizzie suggested this one and endorsed ignoring final assignments to finish it in a single day. 




2) Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton.  I'm pretty sure this was my first ever audible purchase, and it was a good one to start with. Journalist and dating columnist, Dolly Alderton, shares some of the stories and lessons she's learnt in life so far. From WhatsApp romances to landlord-related catastrophes, she celebrates not always having her shit together - something we should all be doing more of... It's funny, heartbreakingly relatable and will remind you how valuable a cuddle with a best friend can be. 





3) Ice-cream for Breakfast by Laura Jane Williams. I listened to this once I'd handed in my final university assignment and left a long term relationship. Essentially: My 'What now?' moment. This book showed me how I could start building a work-life balance which suited me. It gave me permission to abandon the idea of a linear career path, and so much more. Laura writes about the time she took a break from writing to be a nanny, and how being more childlike can change our adult lives. She doesn't sugar coat things, and yet her words are gentle and reassuring. This is literally bravery in a book, and would make a great gift for anyone who feels a little lost in life. 




4) Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng. In this, an artist and single mother moves to a town with a tightly knit community. Her hidden past and unconventional parenting approach causes relationships to unravel and secrets to find their way out. We're reminded as readers that trying to control everything often leads to chaos. Also one of the main characters is called Mia, so I couldn't help but like it that little bit more...




5) Normal People by Sally Rooney. This won the Waterstones' book of the year award, and introduced me to this author. The book follows two school friends in an Irish town as they grow up together (and apart). Sally has an incredible writing style, and makes dialogue seem effortless. The story captures the particular sadness of drifting apart from friends, and the particular nostalgia of on-and-off relationships over the years. 




6) Conversations with Friends by Sally Rooney. This is probably my favourite out of the two Sally Rooney novels, but I loved them both. Sally writes sex scenes like no-one else (though Caitlin Moran is also a pro), which are equal parts awkward, realistic, funny and intriguing. This story is about a young aspiring writer who gets involved with a married man and is thrown into a new world, observing 'adults'. I loved that the characters make controversial decisions, because who wants to read about flawless humans?




7) I couldn't not include the sequel to How to Build a Girl. Caitlin Moran's How to be Famous explores the life of a writer in London, navigating the world of Bad Men and the 90s music scene. Caitlin's pearls of wisdom can be found on every page, and her writing never fails to make me laugh.  You could definitely read this without reading the first in the series, but I'd recommend you still read that before the third comes out. 




8) I spoke about Home Fire by Kamila Shamsie here, but ultimately it was a fairly short novel which had me hooked. It gives a perspective on Isis that I'd never previously considered, and I genuinely found myself caring about the characters involved. It won the Women's Prize for Fiction 2018, which was well deserved.  




9) I heard about This Really Isn't About You by Jean Hannah Edelstein in the newsletter Conversations on Love (subscribe here). Jean writes about moving across the world, the absurdity of grieving, and how dating can make us lose our sense of self. She turns everyday thoughts, experiences and observations into memorable and special moments. She speaks about how having non-romantic love in our lives is what counts, and what will be best for our wellbeing. Word of warning: it's a sad one, and touches often on mortality, but I couldn't put it down. 




10) My final favourite book of 2018 was The Shadow of the Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zafón. This gave me the same fuzzy feeling as the Inkheart series gave my 12 year old self. It's set in Barcelona, and introduces us to 'the cemetery of forgotten books'. I loved diving into this with limited information beforehand, so I won't say too much here, just that it's a great story. I've heard that the second two books in the series aren't as impressive, so I won't be rushing to start those yet. 

That's a wrap! What did you read in 2018?

With best wishes for the new year,

Mia 

Words for Winter (TBR)

Friday 26 October 2018
The list of books I want to read is always growing, but recently it's become almost intimidating. And although I'm not usually one for planning how and when I read - unless it's holiday packing time, and I have to choose between socks and stories - I took some time to pick out the books I'm most excited for and dedicate the last few months of the year to those. 

Here are some thoughts on each book prior to starting them: 

The Shadow of the Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zafrón. My grandfather has been telling me to read this translated book for as long as I can remember, so it takes priority. Set in postwar Barcelona, this follows a boy who sets about hunting down the author of a mysterious book. It appears he has the only copy of his works in existence, and someone has been intent on destroying all evidence of his writing. This is said to capture the magic of libraries, and the power of books. Unsurprisingly, I'm intrigued!

The Truth Pixie by Matt Haig. I'm a big fan of Matt's books, and although this is aimed at children, I'm sure it'll be appreciated by adult readers alike. It's essentially a mental-health guide for children which hopes to comfort worriers and anxious thinkers. The illustrations look incredible too.

Being an Adult: the ultimate guide to... by Lucy Tobin & Kat Poole. This came highly recommended by Leena Norms, who I trust explicitly with book advice. Written with tips from 'proper adults' including plumbers, doctors and finance experts, this should go beyond the clichés we all hear. Hopefully this will give some practical advice about renting, asking for pay rises and everything in between. I'll report back! 

The Pisces by Melissa Broder. I think Beth Mccoll recommended this, whose writing style I adore - honest, confessional, brave, funny... This is Melissa's debut novel about a character's crawl from rock bottom, fuelled by an obsession with love. Melissa explores how love can feel like the very thing that could both 'fix and break you' at the same time. People are very divided with this one, which makes me all the more excited to give it a try. 

The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver. This was recommended by a friend, and is about a father who takes his family to the Belgian Congo in 1959, and their lives are transformed. This is supposedly eye-opening when it comes to postcolonial Africa, which is something I know embarrassingly little about. I sense this will be similar to The Girls by Emma Cline with its cult-like themes, or Amity and Sorrow by Peggy Riley which shows how someone can convince a huge number of people that the end of the world is coming. 

A Sky Painted Gold by Laura Wood. A blogger compared Laura's richly descriptive writing to Fitzgerald's, and that alone was enough to have me joining the hype. The main character (an aspiring writer) has always been curious about the empty house in her village (Similar to When Marnie Was There) and the owners arrive one summer, bringing with them a world of 'moonlit cocktail parties and glamour beyond (...) wildest dreams'. Very Gatsby. I can't wait. 

I doubt I'll finish all of these before the year is up, and I'm not necessarily challenging myself to (I've already read a lot this year and there's no rush to read them all) but these are in the 'next-up category'. I'll update on progress here and on GoodReads. Let me know what you're wanting to read on the run-up to Christmas, I'm always curious. 

Staying Afloat: Job-Hunt Edition

Tuesday 25 September 2018
I recently completed a 3 month internship, I'm now an au-pair, working part-time in a cafe, and searching for a job in the creative industries. Finding a degree-related job while juggling other responsibilities has been one of the hardest challenges I've faced, and it's taken a while to get into a positive headspace about it. I thought I'd share some advice on how to cope with what can be a draining experience. 

First up, prioritise the roles. As tempting as it can be to apply for that dream position straight away, it may not be an entry-level opportunity. If in doubt, send over your details and situation, prove your passion and discuss how you could go about reaching that position. Who knows, they might have a work experience or internship vacancy which hadn't been advertised yet. Apply for the roles you have the most experience for and you are most suited to, rather than getting your hopes up for a job which ultimately you just aren't qualified for at this stage. 

Be Realistic. Make the most of the filtering options on job sites, to make life easier. This way you avoid looking through the vacancies which just aren't you. Consider how far you'd be willing to commute, the company size you'd like to join, your salary expectation, etc... 

Create a template for your cover letter, but tweak it for each role. Add in evidence to prove that you've actually researched the company, dropping in a line about what you've liked that they've recently done for example. They will probably receive an insane number of applications, with predictable key words blurring them all together. This can seem daunting, but there's no harm in getting creative here, share something you do that is memorable. Are you a dog-walker in your spare time? A stand-up comedian as a side hustle? Let 'em know! Getting into the habit of promoting yourself can feel awkward, but it usually gets easier once you get a sense of who you are and what you're looking for.

There's no expiration date for where you want to be. Whether that's to become a marine biologist, or publishing your first novel, it's OK to go slow. Working in retail, or whatever part-time role you find yourself in doesn't make you a failure. It also doesn't need to be temporary. There are no rules about the work you choose post-graduation, so take the advice of others with a pinch of salt (mine included!) There's no rush.

Keep track of the applications you've sent out, to get a sense of how many you've been doing, but also, it can be nice to jot down what else you've been getting up to. This usually cheers me up, reflecting on recent experiences, rather than dwelling on how many hours you've spent scrolling and crossing your fingers...

Reward yourself - it might seem like a small thing to send off a selection of application letters each day, but it takes a lot of energy, and it's easy to fall into an isolated cycle, beating yourself up when that rejection email (or no email entirely...) comes through, or an interview doesn't go as well as you'd hoped. Scheduling fun plans might not fit the spontaneous quota, but setting time aside for laughing in the pub or going for a wander with friends is definitely a positive thing. Solo binge-watching Killing Eve with a giant hot chocolate is also my kind of down-time... 

Hopefully this has been a helpful read! Feel free to send over any of your tips - I'm aware that there will be heaps I've missed out here. Big love to all those figuring it all out, too. 

Favourite Summer Reads

Friday 14 September 2018
Hello! Somehow it's mid-September already - I hope you enjoyed the summer months. I'll do a wrap up about what I've been up to soon, but for now I thought I'd share some of the books I've read recently. Let me know what you thought if you've read any of them too.




-Home Fire by Kamila Shamsie. Winner of the 2018 women's prize for fiction, this novel is different to anything I've read in a while. It follows the lives of the Home Secretary's family and how three siblings find themselves becoming an international story - as one of them begins to idolise their jihadist father. Shamsie creates believable situations with realistic dialogue and fleshed out characters, which meant I was drawn into the story - to the point that I finished this book in a single day!

-How To Be Famous by Caitlin Moran. This sequel to How to Build a Girl is brilliant! The protagonist, Johanna, is settled in London and living her writing dream, but is still deeply unhappy. From sex shaming, imposter syndrome, and fame, to navigating the music scene as a teenager - this fed my soul. I genuinely laughed out loud and noted down phrases throughout, so if you've not read any of Moran's work, I highly recommend that you do.

-Conversations with Friends by Sally Rooney. As soon as I finished this, I instantly wanted to re-read it. I'm still tempted to get it back from my sister before she has a chance to start it! I read Rooney's Normal People earlier this year and liked the dirty realism aspects found in both novels. This follows twenty-one year old aspiring writer, Frances, as she forms a connection with a married couple. The vulnerabilities of each character and the intimacies of their relationships really struck a chord with me, and made me think of youth - with all its naivety and uncertain pleasures.

-The Gloaming by Kirsty Logan. I haven't read Gracekeepers yet but this is the prequel to that, so I'm definitely curious to get my hands on it. This had the perfect balance of magical realism in my opinion, set on an island where occupants end their lives as stone statues atop a cliff. It's enchanting, and reminded me of Ingo by Helen Dunmore - a book which is to blame for my love of the sea.

-All the Good Things by Clare Fisher. If you liked Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine, this is similar. Twenty-one year old Beth is documenting the good things in her life, from her prison cell. I love books which make you consider morals and the true perpetrators of crime, and this ticks all the boxes there. It's also got short chapters and is easy to dip into, which makes it perfect for commuting and travelling.

Thanks for reading!



So... We're Graduates Now?

Wednesday 25 July 2018
So for many of us, newly graduated, we are in the same boat. Some are no doubt seasick, in a world which suddenly demands more decision-making than we could have imagined. I think a lot of us are struggling to adapt, though it's early days, so I thought I'd share what I've found comforting recently whilst job-hunting.



Illustration by Manuela Gandara

What to watch/read/listen to when life is messy and overwhelming: 

Minnie Small's YouTube Channel. Minnie documents her creative process when painting, and often discusses dealing with imposter sydrome - particularly with never feeling like a 'real' artist. Her voice is comforting and her advice is never cliche. Here's one to get started with: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nPmKeGgsBKE&index=53&list=WL&t=0s

The Multi-Hypen Method by Emma Gannon. Now I'll probably dedicate an entire post to this book, as it's genuinely transformed my perspective on W.O.R.K. It's incredible. If you need motivation and comfort in the changing industries, this is all you need. Emma explores side-hustles, and finding the style and work-balance which suits us all as individuals. There are some interesting stories in here, with people who juggle (magnificently) seemingly contrasting jobs. She doesn't look down on those who work the 9-5, but instead praises the need for flexible hours and the option to work remotely, as there are a whole generation of job-seekers who won't settle for unfulfilling jobs!

Laura Jane Williams' Instagram Stories and Tweets. Laura talks about everything from renovating her house to Love Island - but mainly she gives advice on pitching, writing and presenting in a down to earth way. I love her writing style, and her books (Ice-cream for Breakfast and Becoming) are both brilliant. I've had to stop and jot down several inspirational/memorable quotes from both!

Lean In: For Graduates by Sheryl Sandberg. This was a touch too cheesy at times, but there are some memorable quotes and tips which I'd actually use. It can be tough even knowing where to start, let alone what to charge as a writer (or other roles), and this helped in that area. It didn't focus enough on freelancing, I felt, but re-considered the generic 'career ladder' image into a soft play area, where we can dip our toes into various things and experiment along the way. If sending daunting emails, discussing salaries and prepping for interviews give you goosebumps - this could help.

GrownUpLand podcast. Comedians navigate the adult world, from dating and ambition, money and travelling, to sex and saving money. If you've worried about it, these guys have discussed it!

Playing Big (A Practical Guide to Trusting Your Instincts and Sharing Your Brilliance in a World that Needs Women's Voices) by Tara Mohr. Tara is an expert in offering practical skills to help women achieve their dreams, and this book gave me so many tips to start doing just that. It covers inner critics and self-doubt, not knowing what our calling is, and handling criticism and praise in a damaging way. One of the biggest things I took from this was to unlearn good student habits which can be harmful in the workplace. I also admired the way she treated childcare, volunteering and non-traditional/office jobs as equal, and focused on helping women achieve in any area of their lives.

The Comedy Lineup Part 1 & Queer Eye (Netflix). These two have been the ultimate distraction, both are hilarious and heart-warming in equal measure, so I'm recommending them to everyone!

I hope these suggestions help in some way! Feel free to leave any questions below, or let me know what you're doing to tackle the real world at the moment. Obviously I recommend all the cups of tea, dancing, talking to people who care and doing things you love - which will all make a difference. It's worth remembering that there is no rush or pressure to do everything right now, life can, and will, wait.

Change & Fear

Wednesday 11 July 2018
Marisa Bates' recent article on The Pool has resonated so strongly with me that I've managed to escape this 3 month blog break!


Illustration: Eleanor Shakespeare


The article is about fear, and how different our lives could be if we weren't so afraid (Read it here: https://www.the-pool.com/life/life-honestly/2018/27/Marisa-Bate-on-fear-and-a-list-of-things-to-do).

'If I weren't afraid, then the rush of doing something terrifying would never be so exhilarating, so wild, so life-affirming. There's nothing wrong with fear - as long as it doesn't stop you' - M.B.

It seems quite fitting to make this an update post of sorts, for your unlikely curiosity, and my own sanity - I miss blogging more than I thought I would. I've been living back in London for nine weeks now, and aside from the professional side of things (where I feel like I'm learning a lot), I hadn't stopped to consider what else I'd accomplished in this time.

The biggest change, aside from leaving university, was adjusting to single life. I had previously been in a relationship for nearly six years, so being solo brought with it a sudden loss I hadn't anticipated. And yet, it was also exhilarating. Who was I, outside of this duo? It became the perfect time to re-evaluate what I wanted at this stage in life, and work on myself.

Marisa's article explained how she wrote down what she would do if she was less afraid - of pain, failure, being told no, and hurting others. From getting her nose pierced, to confronting a friend who made her feel neglected sometimes, I found myself nodding and realising that the fear of judgement has been stopping me, too. She then realises that what she'd unintentionally done was write a to-do list. Now that's not to say that I'm planning on getting a tattoo anytime soon, or moving across the country (again!), but it's definitely had me thinking - if I've overcome anxieties previously, and have felt all the better for it -what's next?

Being daring doesn't always mean leaving comfort zones, there's definitely bravery in finding our boundaries, and putting our foot down to protect ourselves. I realised things were out of balance when I noticed I hadn't cooked a meal for myself in over a week. If you know me, you'll know that I find cooking relaxing, and it's a big part of my life. Slowing down and reintroducing things like that - one banana bread at a time - has helped my mental health massively.

If I weren't afraid of being 'caught out' for not doing something others would see as productive, I'd read more often, and indulge in days off, guilt-free. So many of us panic that we are 'wasting' days, or not updating our social platforms with 'proof' of our exciting lives. And I'm so over it. 

If I weren't afraid, I'd stick to my gut instinct, rather than forcing something which isn't suitable for me - be it a career change, relationship, or general lifestyle choice.

If I weren't afraid, I'd save up enough money to move abroad for a while, probably to work as a nanny, or try freelancing. Embracing the unknown and all that jazz. 

If I weren't afraid of being seen as demanding or entitled, I'd speak up, ask for help more, and discuss working from home on bad-brain-days. 

If I weren't afraid, I'd wear a bikini in front of people without flinching. (I've started outdoor swimming with friends, and I can confirm this gets easier every time. It's SO nice focusing on what feels fun and challenging, rather than 'I wonder if everyone is staring at my tummy'!) 

This list goes on and on. I imagine yours does too? Just writing it down helps more than you might imagine - so I'd recommend you do! 


Audiobooks: Wishlist & What I've Loved

Tuesday 3 April 2018
Hello! I've not posted in a while, mainly due to lack of motivation and confidence in my writing. But I'm back. I'm currently working on my final two essays at Uni (which I still can't believe) and my new love for audio books has helped me power through studying. I thought I'd share my thoughts and suggestions for anyone else interested. 

Credit: SleuthSayers

Audible is £7.99 each month, and since I spend so much of my budget on books regularly, it's a great deal to access so many books for that price. It can be used like a library by returning a book when you've finished and your credit is reimbursed to be spent on another book. I love podcasts, and this is something similar I've been enjoying. My good friend Lizzie encouraged me to try it out, as it helps her fit in more reading whilst studying without feeling weighed down by academic books. I'm grateful to her as I'm now obsessed!

When I was younger I'd loved listening to cassette tapes before sleeping - Tracey Beaker, Harry Potter, Clarice Bean etc. I'm really indecisive so it's nice having the list I created to chose from, making it quick and easy to transition to the next book.

I've listened to:

  • This is Going to Hurt by Adam Kay, which is a collection of diary entries and stories of a junior doctor.
     
  • Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton - a brilliant account of adulthood, job-hunting and dating. I laughed and sobbed throughout as it was so relatable and witty.

  • Aristotle and Dante Discover The Secrets of The Universe by Benjamin Alire Saenz. I'm currently halfway through, and am so invested in the blossoming friendship/relationship between the two main characters. I'll give a proper review at some point once I've finished! 


To Be Read:

  • Inferior: How Science Got Women Wrong - and the New Research That's Rewriting the Story by Angela Saini. Inspired by the Banging Book Club, this sounds similar to Vagina by Naomi Wolf which investigates women and 'gender wars' in society. I think this will de-bunk stereotypes and myths which I'm excited about.

  • Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What it Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha. Can you tell I'm obsessed with all things sex and relationships? This debates whether monogamy is natural, explores the mainstream preferences and discusses what the future will bring.

  • Testosterone Rex: Unmaking the Myths of Our Gendered Minds by Cordelia Fine. Another on the Banging Book Club 2018 reading list which caught my eye. Cordelia unpacks the truth behind our biology, hormones and upbringing.

  • The Intimate Adventures of a London Call Girl by Belle De Jour. I loved the ITV series based on this book (Secret Diary of a Call Girl) as I love Billie Piper and it changed my perspective on the sex work industry. I'm not sure what to expect with this in terms of how it's narrated but I'm looking forward to it.

  • Turtles All the Way Down by John Green. I've heard great things about this, and I usually like John Green's books. It's about two friends hunting down a fugitive billionaire and investigating the mystery which surrounds him.

  • Why I'm No Longer Talking to White People About Race by Reni Eddo-Lodge. I've heard great things about this, and how it confronts white privilege and black history. I have no doubts this will be one I recommend to many people, and find the tools inside to open up important discussions.

  • Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain. This is a guide for introverts to see how they can discover their strengths and achieve their potential, as well as an insight for extroverts. As an introvert through-and-through, this is one I imagine I'll relate to, and find comfort from listening to.

  • The Descent of Man by Grayson Perry. I bloody love Grayson's artwork and how he confronts and rethinks masculinity. This is only a short one (3 hours) so it'll be a good one for when I'm travelling at some point.

  • Still me by Jojo Moyes. This is the third book in the Me Before You series. The first book made me weep, and the film did, too. I hope this isn't one of those dragged out stories which ruins the first book! Her writing is easy to read, but conveys big issues and emotions. I can't wait for this one.

  • The Cows by Dawn O'Porter. This is about three women, and stereotypes in modern life. I heard a spoiler about one of the woman being secretly filmed masturbating on a train which goes viral - and instantly I was intrigued! It also delves into the world of infertility, which interests me.

  • Eve of Man by Tom and Giovanna Fletcher. This is the unpublished first book in a new trilogy which is about the first girl born in 50 years. It sounds dystopian, eerie and reminds me of What Happened to Monday - right up my street.

  • Call Me by Your Name by Andre Aciman. I recently saw the film trailer for the adaptation of this book, and several people suggested reading the book first. It's about a summer romance - though I can't tell if it's between an older man and a teenage boy? Seems problematic, but then I guess there have been similar hetero relationships fictionalised which haven't received negative attention...

  • The Martian by Andy Weir. I've spoken about my love for the film adaptation previously, and it always reminds me to appreciate life. The book is apparently more scientific than the film, which should help it feel more realistic. This is nearly 11 hours long, so I'm not sure when I'll start tackling it.

  • Ready Player One by Ernest Cline. My sister has been recommending this for years, as it's one of her favourites. I'm hoping to read this before seeing the Spielberg film soon! It's about virtual reality in a fantastical future.

  • Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda by Becky Albertalli. The trailer for this film looks amazing so I can't wait to 'read' the book too. All I know is that it's about the concept of coming out as gay, and the response has been really positive, which is great.

  • All That She Can See by Carrie Hope Fletcher. I loved Carrie's 'All I Know Now' memoir and this is about love, food and magic (a few of my favourite things). 

  • When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi. This seems similar to This is Going to Hurt, and I know it'll break my heart. It's about a neurosurgeon being diagnosed with terminal lung cancer, and the transition from doctor to patient dealing with mortality.
Please share any of your recommendations in the comments! I'm always up for expanding this list and trying new types of books :)  

Finding Your Voice

Saturday 24 February 2018
"You've got a heart as loud as lions, so why let your voice be tamed?" - Emeli Sande

I'm really enjoying writing about writing right now, so here's another spout of rambling for your eyeballs. I remember hearing the phrase "be original" and "find your voice" being drilled into our heads during the first few weeks of University, and instantly feeling unsettled. The whole point, surely, of dedicating three years to experimenting with writing styles was to form this voice organically, in an unforced way?

I found myself thinking - and still sometimes find myself wondering - why would anything I make be different? Or worth reading? Even when writing this blog, I had close friends and family questioning whether I would contribute anything individual to the ever growing community of bloggers.

This had me stopping myself from reviewing restaurants, and writing articles - convincing myself that someone 'better' would already have done so, or would do so in the future, only in a more concise way than I could ever achieve.

So this is a reminder, to myself, and to you. Put your thoughts out there, or at least write them down and keep them private until they grow into something clearer. Your 'voice' will change and evolve, along with your behaviour and desires. Some days you'll want to write about race, politics, feminism, and other days the sheer joy of watching someone you love eat a mountain of pasta will be a topic which seems to hold vital importance worth documenting. That's OK.

You also don't need to define yourself as a poet, or a journalist, or any specific label, unless you want to. Sure, it might make your CV easier to understand, but mine's a messy showcase of my indecisive self, and I'm embracing that...

I find myself wondering if writing about skincare is too trivial to be worth publishing, that no-one would care or take me seriously. But it's one of many things which interests me - and surely that's something? I'm trying to remind myself that my opinions are valid, despite any privilege I have, or how little I know about a situation, or how unimportant the things I'm drawn to might seem.

Write first, then worry - it's somewhat inevitable. Edit, scrap, salvage, forgive, release. It's so easy to allow fear and stress to consume us and stop us from even acting on impulse and starting in the first place. But maybe we can actively change this mindset, these perceptions which destroy not only our dreams and goals but result in us wasting so much potential and interesting ideas. It's a difficult spiral to escape, and one I confront each time I sit and try to untangle a mess of thoughts at a keyboard or notebook. But it's a shared struggle, that much I know.

One voice holds incredible power, if only we are brave enough to start using it, rather than worrying about what it looks (sounds?) like.

We'll speak again soon,

Mia

You Don't Owe Anyone Your Productivity

Monday 19 February 2018


I've been ill for over a week now, with a broken laptop leaving me without Netflix for longer than I'd have liked and an abandoned to-do list needing my attention. This is what encouraged me to write this post about unapologetically living your life, and adjusting our schedules when necessary.

I watched one of Leena Norms' old YouTube videos - this one  (side note: she's incredible), in which she answers the question 'How to get everything done'. Along with some great tips about balancing different projects, and finding our limits, she mentions that ultimately it's your life, and it's OK to be selfish and lazy if that's what makes you happy.

This idea has played on my mind for nearly a year, since I first watched the video. Leena unintentionally gave me permission to not need to seek permission - for anything. This seems relevant more than ever now, at a time when people are harnessing the power of self-care and mental health treatment. Just as I think we shouldn't have to justify having an extra biscuit, or sleeping in, we shouldn't need to convince anyone of our worth. We should be able to answer to ourselves alone.

If what motivates you to work hard is making your teachers and parents proud, to provide for a future family, or to make your ex jealous - then you do you -but if your current workload or schedule isn't rewarding to you personally, then is it worth it? There's always time to change things up and find new priorities. I definitely want to show my appreciation to my mum and all she has done for me, but success comes in many forms - happiness and being a decent person both make the cut.

I am all for earning the money needed to live, and to reach all the goals, but there is something incredibly liberating about realising that you can help create the world you want to exist in. I'm speaking from a place of privilege, admittedly - I only have to be responsible for feeding and washing myself. I completely understand that for many of us, caring for several people and part time work in anxiety-inducing environments is something we have little control over. But if we can inject even the smallest amount of hope and change into everyday routine, things can (with any luck) improve.

If embracing this perspective stops you beating yourself up for not achieving as much as others seemingly impressive lifestyles, it's surely a good thing. I've been feeling frustrated that I recently failed my new regular upload schedule (and other tasks) due to illness but I'm trying to forgive myself and see that in the grand scheme of things, not reaching self-inflicted deadlines isn't the end of the world.

Here are some happy memories I am grateful for, which resulted after I admitted defeat and didn't force myself to work through each sneeze: A gooey tray of raspberry and white chocolate brownies shared with friends, finishing a good book (Ruby Tandoh's Eat Up),  steaming away the troubles with a floral pink bath bomb, walking along the seafront and watching the sun set.

SO good!


Creative Writing Degrees: My Experience

Wednesday 14 February 2018
I remember applying for University and there not being much out there about the specific course I had found (Creative and Media Writing). Although I found a lot of advice about English Literature courses (my original preference) which helped, I would love to start making content for people who are in the position I was then to get a sense of what the course involves.

These are some of the Creative Writing and Media units you can choose from at the University of Portsmouth:
  • Poetry
  • True stories/Memoir
  • Animation
  • Review writing
  • Fan fiction and Historical fiction 
  • News, War and Peace 
  • Cultures of Consumption
  • Feature writing
  • Writing for Children/Young Adults
  • Writing for the Press
  • Travel Writing
  • Talk Shows
  • Media & Propaganda
  • Script/Radio writing
  • Short stories
  • Non-fiction
  • Theoretical Studies/Critical Thinking (feminism, existentialism, sociology) 
  • Publishing
  • Contemporary media events
  • Popular culture
  • Magazine design and content (including learning Indesign and other applications) 
  • Film/Television studies and society
  • Print media (the history and contemporary studies) 
  • Comedy and culture 
As you can see, there is lot more to it than the 'arty' label suggests. It amazes me how much fits into a three year time frame, and I've really enjoyed the course overall.

If you are - like I was - juggling between English Literature and a Creative Writing degree, I would definitely suggest looking at the Creative Writing path as an option. Much of the essay writing is in the style of English Literature, and you can analyse your own work alongside other authors. I feel like we were able to get a taster of so many different forms, seeing what we liked and were good at, which I might not have tried outside of Uni. 

Something to bear in mind, like most courses, this one involves a lot of independent study and often assignments are broad so you are able to mould it to your chosen subject. This takes a bit of getting used to for some people, and I for one really wanted clear guidance, but after a while it becomes fun testing the boundaries and brainstorming. I applied theoretical studies to Sherlock, Gilmore Girls, Charlie Brooker's Black Mirror and so many more. Even seemingly complex concepts can be explored through modern texts, which I enjoyed experimenting with. 

So what jobs can you get after graduating? I'm in the process of researching career paths and options, but really - so long as you can find a way to use your gained skills, you can take it anywhere! People tend to become journalists, screen writers, authors and editors, but the world is quickly developing and new jobs are popping up which will be relevant, especially in the creative industry. Don't panic. Apply for internships and work experience in advance, as you will not only get experience which looks good on your CV, you'll get a sense of what kind of role you feel most comfortable doing.

Good luck! 

Thanet Food Guide - Part 3 - Margate

Monday 12 February 2018
Famous for the revived Dreamland, Turner Gallery and quirky vintage shops, Margate is filled with great places to explore and eat. I've given you a mini review of my top picks below.



GB Pizza- This place has started to become quite well known, and they are famous for their crispy based pizzas. The decor in this place is great, and I'll definitely design my future home with a similar look! Try the anchovy and chilli, pear and gorgonzola, or the new specials. Their ingredients are all sourced from local suppliers, which is always a good thing!

Roost- I visited this restaurant to celebrate receiving my A-level results a few years ago, and had simple, tasty roast chicken and chips, but their menu appears to have evolved a lot since then! Now there is seaweed, squid and various other seafood options to choose from, too.

Old Kent Market - Converted and restored from a Cinema from 1911, this indoor market is home to several stalls, from art to clothing and food. Fresh fruit, Asian buns and American street food served on an open top bus - expect the unexpected here!

The Ambrette - This place is unique with Indian-inspired menus. We've visited for various tasting evenings and have loved the creativity and international influences on the dishes. It's received Michelin stars and is definitely worth a visit.

Hantverk & Found - They host several supper clubs here, and I took my mum to a plant-based one for her birthday last year, which we enjoyed. They specialise in seafood: platters, and main dishes. Healthy and tasty.

Bottega Caruso - I've not been here yet, but I've been inside a few times and it smells incredible. The produce is a combination of locally sourced ingredients, and imported items from Southern Italy. You can buy fresh pasta and wine from their shop and I'd love to try out their lessons and workshops, too.

I hope you enjoyed this series, and that you'll give some of these places a go! Please share any of your suggestions as I'm always up for trying new restaurants and cafes. 

Thanet Food Guide - Part 2 - Broadstairs

Friday 9 February 2018
Broadstairs is a lovely little town, with lots of pubs on the seafront to visit. There are fireworks here weekly in summer, along with Folk week, Food Festivals and other events too. This is probably the shortest of the three part food guide, but hopefully it gives you some inspiration. 


Wyatt and Jones - This restaurant has receieved Michelin stars and other awards and we usually visit for birthdays and family celebrations. The sharing steak (Porterhouse) is phenomenal and comes with delicious sides, and the Dover Sole with seaweed and shellfish butter is really flavourful. Pricey but special. 

Rustic. Co - A good option for brunch, with milkshakes and burgers too. The food is beautifully presented on wooden sharing boards, and the cocktails are great too. 

Morellis - This ice cream parlour is quite well-known, and it's worth the hype. Perfect for a hot chocolate pit stop after a long walk on the beach or clifftop! Dulce de Leche is my all time favourite ice cream flavour here, and I love the old fashioned decor, as it reminds me of American diners.

Albarino - A tapas bar with a wide variety of wine to go alongside sharing dishes. Choose from Patatas bravas, octopus, padron peppers, delicious chickpea and fennel chips, and my favourites - dates stuffed with cheese, honey and thyme - and more. This is another traditional birthday location for our family. 

Stay tuned for the final part of this food guide, where I'll share my favourite eateries in Margate. 

Thanet Food Guide - Part 1 - Ramsgate

Wednesday 7 February 2018
I've wanted to create a food tour of Thanet for a really long time, so here goes! I've split this into three parts, covering three fairly small towns in East Kent: Broadstairs, Margate, and Ramsgate. 


So I lived in Ramsgate for most of my teenage years, and have discovered lots of great places there:

Kyoto Sushi & Grill - Recently re-opened, this is a family favourite. Authentic Japanese food, specialising in fresh fish, but catering to vegans and vegetarians too. I recommend the Wakame salad, sashimi sets, salmon teriyaki and black cod, but the specials are always delicious and worth trying.

26 Harbour Street Bar & Kitchen - The staff here are genuinely lovely and welcoming, and they've got everything from classic coffees to Kombucha. I love the brunch options, and the variety of dinner options, including meat substitutes like tempeh. They also host live music evenings which are a lot of fun.

Flavours by Kumar - This is an award-winning Indian restaurant, with traditional dishes alongside creative modern twists. I've celebrated several birthdays and events here, and I'm never disappointed. I usually go for a vegetarian Thali as you can choose what it includes. My favourites are the charcoal roasted aubergine mash and crispy fried okra with mango powder. The specials tend to be pigeon or other game, and in-between each course you are given small tasters and palate cleansers, which are always great.

The Surin - This Thai restaurant was one of the first we went to when we moved to Ramsgate, and it's brilliant. Specialising in Thai, Cambodian and Lao cuisine, the selection is huge. I love the steamed sea bass with lime juice, fragrant glass noodle salad and pad thai. Definitely a good option if you're trying to eat more plant-based, as their vegetarian options are delicious.

Ho Wong - This has been our favourite Chinese takeaway go-to for years, but you can sit and eat in the restaurant too. It's quite pricey so we have to wean ourselves off ordering so often... I always go for the fish fillets in a sticky garlic and chilli sauce because it's seriously spicy and flavourful. The pork dumplings and chicken wings are also addictive. I've genuinely not found anywhere that beats this place!

Sorbetto - Literally seconds away from the beach, this icecream parlour is a must-try. Watermelon, Turkish Delight and Salted Caramel are my favourite flavours, but they introduce new ones often.

Vinylhead, Corby's tearoom  and Homefront - If you're after tea and cake, these are my suggestions. Vinylhead is a record store which serves homemade cakes and lunch options too. Corby's tearoom always has loads of cake options and is a lovely place to meet with friends for a quiet afternoon. Homefront is a new discovery, and arguably the most interesting. The decor is war-time themed, with a wireless, tea cosies and the staff dressed in old fashioned aprons.  

I'm yet to try Magnolia  (a little Italian restaurant), but it's been highly raved about by my parents so I'll be giving them a visit soon.

A quick note to say that our beloved Belgian Bar in Ramsgate is closing down, which is a shame. We loved it there as we could bring our dogs with us, and they served pizza until the early hours of the morning - perfect for ending the night after drinks with friends. Hopefully they are able to get going again at some point, and until then, I'm definitely going to try and support local businesses as much as possible.

Stay tuned for part 2 & 3 of my Thanet food guide! 

Writing a Dissertation: A Guide By An Anxious Mind

Monday 5 February 2018
If you're in Second Year and getting goosebumps at the thought of your final project, hopefully this post helps you! 

I'm currently writing the second half of my Creative Writing dissertation. It's weirdly split 50/50 between 10,000 and 5,000 words and the final deadline is at the end of April. I achieved a 1st in the first half, which I am really proud of. Obviously, I can't predict the total grade, but I can give coping tips and advice to make it seem a little less daunting.



  • Use the internet! YouTube, Library websites, Google Scholar - even Twitter. Make a list of key sources, terms and ideas and trust me, someone will have created content in that area. Soon you'll have a list of potential books and articles to look for and methods to help you. When I was researching, I found it comforting finding a slight gap in material, where I could see my work fitting in. There was loads to reinterpret and use with my own perspective, especially when it came to literary analysis. 
  • Start Small, and Start Soon. Remember, you can't edit a blank page. The sooner you have some thoughts drafted, you can start to bulk up the content with academic sources and start to see a rough structure forming. Every little helps here. 10,000 words seems like an impossible figure, but once you reach it, it makes other smaller essays seem tiny in comparison. Last minute panic never helps, and getting started early means that when you abandon your first idea despite reaching 8,000 words, there is still time to start from scratch! I still don't know how I managed that..But ultimately the only way to reach that word count, is just to start writing. 
  • Make it interesting. Choose something you're genuinely passionate about, and try to make the initial planning memorable. Eye-catching, colourful, wild mind-maps, or neat and tidy lists - as creative as you like. It won't take long before you start to connect ideas. I don't know about you, but if notes looks aesthetically pleasing, I'm more likely to return to them. Some people say that dolling up notes is a time-waster, but ultimately, there's no rush - you can pace yourself as you wish. Bring on all the highlighters and post it notes!

  • Find unexpected assistance. Discuss your project with others! I found out that my uncle studied a similar unit to a theme within my dissertation, and he gave me a few book suggestions. People might give you advice which you don't feel is relevant, but it's worth a try. They are, most of the time, truly interested in what you are working on, so share - don't hide away, cram and burn out. I'm lucky enough to have a mum who is obsessed with editing (which is great seeing as two of my personal tutors have left me mid-final year!), but meeting up with friends to give each other feedback is another good idea. 
  • Take breaks! I know that self-care has become almost cliche now, but it is important. It makes me so worried watching people panic and stress without taking breathers. I have low days and meltdowns, but giving myself permission to take an hour, or an afternoon, or a full day off to gather my thoughts helps the bad thoughts from spiralling too much. If you work while at Uni and struggle to find balance, making a timetable with hours set aside for yourself is worth doing. It might seem self-indulgent or non-justifiable, but in the long run, prioritizing your mental health is a positive thing. 
  • Remember: you are not your work. It doesn't define you, and regardless of the grade you receive, be proud that you tried! It's cheesy but true. One day you will barely recall the essays you worked on during Uni or school, so just give it your best shot now, and don't overthink it. It's all about trying to highlight all the skills you've learnt over the past few years, and enthusiasm goes a long way as part of that.


Once I've submitted my final piece, I'd love to share more about what my dissertation was about, and make similar posts to this. Let me know if there's anything you're interested in hearing about.


What I Read in January

Friday 2 February 2018
This month has been a real mixed bag, reading wise, as I've been trying to get through my personal 'to-be-read' pile, whole working through books for University assignments. I've ended the month feeling a little burnt out, struggling to focus and really settle into a new story, but I'm happy to have a short break for a while.


  1. Writing Poetry and Getting Published - I read this as part of my research for a writing project unit, and I found this really helpful. It includes games and writing prompts, tips for editing and what to do with your poetry portfolio once it is complete. It's a small book so it doesn't take long to read.
  2. A Galaxy of Her Own - I couldn't resist picking this up in Waterstones, I think partially because I was still on a high after watching the Hidden Figures film, which if you haven't seen - you must! The cover is beautiful and this book is really similar to Goodnight Stories for Rebel Girls, with illustrations and profiles on women throughout history who have worked in the space industry (I think that's the right term?) - from engineers to nutritionists and fashion designers. There are great quotes in this and it would make a great coffee table book.
  3. Eating Words - This is a collection of food writing which I started over summer last year! I finally got around to finishing this, and as much as I enjoyed it in parts, it was quite academic and difficult to remember to return to. If you're interested in food writing, it's worth referring to, as it has a broad range of genres and authors from different time periods.
  4. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine - It took me a while to get into this book as the honest dialogue is painful at times, but soon enough I was emotionally invested in the story. The central character is quirky and incredibly isolated, which we learn more about as the novel unfolds. Hilarious, gritty, realistic and mysterious.
  5. Rebecca – I usually don’t choose Classics, and I've not read many, but my friend Lizzie lent me her copy with the promise that I’d be hooked – and she was right. This has definite Great Gatsby elements, with a majority of the novel set in a grand estate, with a mysterious man living behind the doors. The main character is tormented by her new husband's dead ex-wife, and every paranoid feeling she has is palpable - I loved it!
  6. Kitchen – My mum has been recommending this book for ages, and I'm so happy I finally read it. It explores the power of memories, and how kitchens bring so much comfort to our lives. At one point the main character gets a taxi across cities just to give her close friend a taste of the pork katsu ramen she eats for dinner, which made me very happy. 
What have you read this month and do you have any plans to read anything in particular this year? Follow me on Goodreads here if you want more reviews and bookish updates. 

Netflix Recommendations

Monday 29 January 2018
I'm not sure if January 29th is too late to be wishing you all a happy new year, but I'll do it anyway. I hope this mad world is treating you well.

Source: https://www.marthastewart.com/1508995/introducing-31-days-gratitude-our-daily-calligraphy-project

I thought I'd share a few of my favourite things to watch on Netflix, as it can be overwhelming trying to choose from the huge selection and discover new shows.

Films:

Hunt for the Wilderpeople - This is a comedy set in New Zealand following a boy and his foster uncle who are on the run from social services in the bush. It's hilarious and heart-warming in equal measure.

Julie & Julia - A Nora Ephron classic starring the iconic Meryl Streep, Amy Adams and Stanley Tucci. It's based on Julia Child's autobiography and a memoir which follows a food blogger attempting to recreate all 534 recipes from Child's cookbook in one year.

LaLaLand - I've had the soundtrack from this film stuck in my head ever since first watching. Featuring Emma Stone and Ryan Gosling, and reminiscent of 500 Days of Summer, this is not to be brushed with a typical 'musical' label. It's haunting and heart-breaking, and visually stunning.

The Martian - One of my all time favourites starring Matt Damon who plays an astronaut who is left on Mars by his team who think he is dead. What follows is an epic survival struggle and a mission to bring him home. It'll make you grateful for every plant thriving on Earth - genuinely.

The Gift - This psychological horror/thriller is brilliant, and not something I'd normally choose, but it was recommended to me and I surprisingly liked it. A couple essentially are gifted with strange, puzzling items and visits from a former high-school friend, making them paranoid and confused. The story unravels and the ending is brilliant - definitely worth checking out.

The Invitation - A mysterious dinner party spirals out of control, with the host telling the guests about a cult-like group which transformed her healing process. I won't give any spoilers but this one is intense.

The Awakening - I loved the Female-Sherlock vibes in this. The main character Florence is a famous ghost-debunker who visits a supposedly haunted boarding school and begins to unravel the mystery. Chilling and full of jump-scares.

The Fundamentals of Caring - This comedy stars Paul Rudd (dreamy) who becomes a caregiver for an 18 year old with muscular dystrophy. They embark on a road trip and meet some interesting characters. This is a strange one - but a goodie.

Tallulah - This stars Juno actresses Ellen Page and Allison Janney, who are both brilliant in this. Ellen Page's character 'rescues' a baby who she feels isn't cared for properly by an eccentric, alcoholic mother and bonds with her boyfriend's mother, convincing her that the baby is her grandchild. This is painfully funny and gritty.

Me and Earl and the Dying Girl - Think Son-of-Rambow meets The Fault in Our Stars. An awkward teenager is forced to become friends with a classmate  (Rachel) who has been diagnosed with leukemia. He and his co-worker Earl share their collection of short films with Rachel and try to create one for her. Emotional, funny, and memorable.

What Happened to Monday - Set in a dystopian future where overpopulation is strictly monitored, a family of septuplets (named Monday-Sunday) attempt to exist as one person to avoid punishment from the government. Monday disappears and her sisters must try to find her before their secret is discovered. Noomi Rapace plays each sister very convincingly, and she's seriously stunning too.

Ferris Bueller's Day Off &The Breakfast Club - Two classics which make me ridiculously nostalgic for school. If you've never watched these, I really recommend you do. They aren't very long and both have great soundtracks.


Series:

Easy - This is a comedy-drama anthology with stand-alone episodes - though some characters reappear - set in Chicago. Dave Franco is in this, who I love. I'm surprised this hasn't had much hype as it's diverse and covers fascinating stories about modern life. There's brothers opening a brewery, a married couple experimenting with an open relationship, there's sex workers, break-ups, feminism, Uber-drivers and everything inbetween.

Black Mirror - Charlie Brooker's iconic series, I'm obsessed, we're all obsessed, it's great. Dark, original stories about technology and media which are so realistic. My favourites are 'Be Right Back', 'Hang the DJ' and 'The Entire History of You', but I thought they were all amazing. They are self-contained so you can pick and choose the order to watch them, if you fancy.

Chef's Table - One for the food lovers. This is a collection of documentaries following the lives of chefs from around the world. The videography is great, and I've now got an ever-evolving list of restaurants I want to visit since watching. If you fancy a calming series to watch in the bath or while cooking, this is perfect.

That '70s Show - A comedy about teenage life set in 1970s Wisconsin starring Mila Kunis, Ashton Kutcher and Laura Prepon. It's problematic in some respects but quite funny. A good one for background viewing and a crowd pleaser.

The Sinner - A seemingly ordinary woman randomly stabs a man to death at the beach and it turns out she's mentally blocked out an event from her memory. Every episode has a cliffhanger so I literally watched this in one night!

Orange is the new Black - This is one to invest in time-wise, as there are five seasons to catch up on. The comedy/drama show is set in a women's prison in America, and is absolutely worth the attention it's received. Each character is so deeply fleshed out and you get a sense of each individual backstory. I wept, laughed and wept some more.

Orphan Black - This is one of my ultimate favourites, which I try to persuade everyone I meet to watch. It's a Canadian sci-fi series which stars Tatiana Maslany who plays several clones. Her acting is amazing, and soon enough it feels like each character is played by someone different. The story is fascinating, dealing with technology, evolution, and family. Hard to describe but it instantly had me hooked.

The End of the F***ing World - I watched this fairly recently, and it's easy to binge as the episodes are only around 20 minutes each. It has Submarine vibes with dark comedy throughout. Again, a great soundtrack too. It follows a self-diagnosed psychopathic teenager and his rebellious classmate who is tired of her life. Another road trip adventure with several mishaps along the way. I've heard rumours of a second series, which is cool.

Master of None - This show has two series and follows the life of an actor named Dev, through his dating life, professional career and his love of food. I found it funny, charming and romantic. It's different to most shows I've seen before and gives an insight into single life in New York.

You Me Her - This revolves around a married couple introducing a third member to their relationship, and explores the positives and negatives of the situation. It's rare for polyamorous relationships to be seen in the mainstream, and this handles the theme impressively. It's interesting to see how the trio navigate the new world, deal with judgemental neighbours and work through their own concerns. There's currently two short seasons and another is due to be released in March this year.

Mindhunter - This crime series is set in 1977 when the term serial killers first was conceived. Two FBI agents and a psychologist interview imprisoned murderers to understand what provoked their attacks. This is another hard one to explain, but I found it to be enchanting and eerie. Series two is apparently on the horizon so catch up if it sounds up your street!

How To Get Away With Murder - A law professor at a prestigious university helps a group of students cover up a murder. The plot continues with so many unexpected twists and the students all become close friends despite their differences. It's similar to Orange is the new Black as there are flashbacks behind each of the professor's defence cases.

Atypical - This is a funny and eye-opening series focused on 18 year old Sam, who is on the autism spectrum. It follows as he tries to be more independent, get a girlfriend and deal with life's curveballs, as well as his family who must juggle their own lives with Sam's needs. I really respect the creators for this show as they handle the topic responsibly while still managing to be funny.

Gilmore Girls / The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air / Friends - These are my go-to throwback favourites and I think most people will know what they are about. If you fancy a comforting viewing, these can always be relied on.

Cuckoo - This features Greg Davies, Tyger Drew-Honey and Taylor Lautner. The Thompson family discover that their daughter has fallen for a hippie during her gap year travels. The couple move into the family home and a series of hilarious events occurs. There are currently three series to binge.

Marvel's Jessica Jones - There are several Marvel shows I want to watch on Netflix, and if they are anything like this, I have high hopes. Jessica Jones is a former superhero who opens a private detective agency and suffers with posttraumatic stress disorder. David Tennant (who I adore) plays the villain - Kilgrave -who can control minds, and has a hidden history with Jessica.


What I want to watch:

Dear White People

Dark (All I've heard is: German 'Stranger Things', which for the record, is also incredible).

Alias Grace (Margaret Atwood adaptation).

The Discovery (I believe is inspired by David Eagleman's Short stories - A collection of afterlife theories I enjoyed).

The Crown - This has been raved about for a while and I'm intrigued.

Peaky Blinders - I wouldn't normally consider this something I'd be interested in, but it seems like everyone is loving it, so I'm planning on watching soon.


I've probably missed a few out, but hopefully that's given an idea of what to watch on Netflix! I'm always on the hunt for something new to watch too, so please share your suggestions in the comments.